This bad behavior has spread to all levels of society. Listen
to any talk show on the radio. They are easy to find on the dial. You will get
an earful of overt contempt, scorn and ridicule from the host and callers. The
attitude is also exhibited in countless Letters to the Editor in local newspapers.
On our town’s local Google group, which serves as a public
forum for our small New Hampshire town, it is now common for people to speak
condescendingly toward others, treating them as if they were stupid or evil or
both – simply for holding a different political position. It is not limited to
online comments. In our town there is a yard sign that uses a vulgarity in
reference to the president. So much for public civility. Bedford Falls has become Pottersville.
The meanness virus has spread to Christian venues. I was
shocked when I tuned into a Christian radio channel and heard the same vitriolic
memes I hear on secular talk radio. Christianity
used to be known for niceness. In fact “being a Christian gentleman” or a
“Christian woman” was synonymous with being nice. Now Christianity has a reputation
for being mean.
It is hard to overestimate the damage this plague of meanness,
which is spewing from Christian pulpits and pens, has done to the cause of the
gospel. People – especially young people - are voting with their feet. The meanness
virus is emptying the churches faster than the COVID pandemic.
Some Christians derogatorily call those who hold a different
political position “sheep” or “sheeple.” One devout family member taunted me
with cries of “Baa, baa” when I voiced a position that differed from his
standard of “evangelical correctness.” He seems to have forgotten that “sheep”
was Jesus’ term for his followers. Another church-going family member praised a
politician she described as a “strongman,” apparently without realizing that
“strongman” was Jesus’ term for the devil.
What is the solution? Is there an antidote? Is there a
vaccine? If there were, undoubtedly some would exercise their right not to
receive it. People would see it as their God-given right to exercise meanness
in the name of free speech. Religion does not seem to have a cure. At least not
the type of Christian religion that dominates American media. If that were the
case Christianity would not have become so nasty.
As a Christian I can only speak to my own religion. I will
let those of other faiths speak to their traditions. I believe that Christians
need to repent of meanness. As the turn of the century Methodist revivalist Sam
P. Jones used to preach: “You better quit your meanness.” I include myself in
this admonition. I am not immune to the temptation to return evil for evil. “None
are righteous, no not one.”
There is a need for spiritual renewal. The old wineskins of
the Christian religion need to be exchanged for new wineskins. I regularly hear Christians calling for a
national revival today, but these calls tend to be for a return to the
“old-time religion” that got us into this mess. They want to repair the worn-out
wineskins. We need something entirely new.
We need an antidote for the toxic Christianity that has
poisoned American culture. Megachurches ruled by mega-personalities with
mega-egos and media megaphones need to be replaced by local, homegrown, face-to-face,
inclusive spirituality that focuses on loving God and loving your neighbor as
yourself. Fortunately that is already present in many small churches.
If love means anything at all, it means treating people with
honor and respect. It means focusing on what the apostle Paul calls the “fruit
of the Spirit”: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, self-control.” As he concludes, “against such things there is no
law.” Let it be, dear Lord, let it be.